Empathy – is the “keyword”
As parents, it is but natural, to feel proud when your child succeeds. The roots of success are borne in the mindset of our own, that we sow or practise with our children. To some, its a pomp of fame and recognition and to some, its simply showing a gesture of empathy and encouragement.
Just a day ago, on 19th August 2017, we were one of the proud parents attending an annual prize distribution function at school, cheering for each and every student who received recognition for their efforts. It was a pleasing moment, many of us would have a few tears of joy rolling on our cheeks. Well, I clapped and cheered seeing my own kiddo walking proudly on stage, all neat and trained of how to walk and talk and receive the award. Ofcourse we could see the twinkle in his eyes as he receives “three” awards. Wow! That’s great. How little did he know that its a long way to go and that he needed to make a continuous effort to improve and things will be more challenging as he grows up. Accomplishments are a part of life, but how we react and celebrate differs from person to person.
Ofcourse, a celebration was on it’s way. We haven’t bought him a costly gift nor thrown a party at The Taj. A simple family gathering on a beautiful rainy Sunday at home with his cousins and a couple of friends made his day. He was happy as ever. He knows that “His parents” love him and that’s just enough for him to try again for securing more medals in the future. 🙂
For me, I feel a child needs encouragement and empathy.
When you show “care” and “love” for the efforts your child has put in, it will remind him not to see just the grades he scored but also as an act that was kind and loving.
Pat your child and give him loads of hugs, for he learns not only to be successful but also loved.
Empathise. – help your child at each step – he needs it.
The key to accomplishment is within each one of us.
Tell them that each child is unique and have their own star points. Be compassionate. Accept your child’s uniqueness.
Develop a “positive” ego. When you succeed – don’t get carried away, for failure is inevitable. Don’t cry over them.
Embrace the positive traits they possess.
Encourage them to be true to their “own self”.
Teach them that nobody is perfect and so is he.
Co-operate, Love, Help, Care and simply keep telling them ” how much we love them, trust them and believe in them”.
“Children are “Stars” that twinkle in our eyes at all times.”