Despite our best efforts, we all judge others sometime or the other. It might be over small things or big things. We judge others especially when things doesn’t t turn out the way we want them to happen. Why not give others the benefit of the doubt? We are all different in various ways and that makes us unique. So instead of playing the blame game, why don’t we just accept them the way they are? Most of us do the best we can with the resources we have at the moment.
Albert Einstein said, Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid”
We’re hard on each other because were using each other as a launching pad out of her/his own perceived deficiency.
Judging a person does not define who they are, it defines who you are.