Expectation hurts for sure. That’s the reason happiness is found in the most unexpected places coz it was never expected. Is it correct to feel hurtful or allow ourselves to feel hurt? Well this is debateable. We all have a different level of emotions and our own attitude towards life that make us feel or behave the way we do. Once in a while, yes we must allow our self to get hurt to be able to value the power of strength. Do not allow yourself to sulk or drool over the past but yes it is necessary to feel the pain, to go through the process of healing the wound and only when we allow that to happen, we can value the things that we possess.
Everyone wants to feel loved and never ignored or avoided. But what if circumstances are such and it’s inevitable? Sometimes, we have to compromise on our own needs and choices. But if one door shuts, doesn’t mean all the other doors remain shut. Find your door and just push it open. It will take some time to get over the wound but Time heals. Change the way you feel and think if need be. Change your attitude if you want some change to happen.
Of course it is normal to feel hurt when people leave you suddenly when once you were considered special and wanted. It will sore your heart and bruise it. But then, it depends on how you respond and not react. Surrender and accept if you have wronged and forgive if you are right. Sometimes there is no wrong and no right. Things just happen beyond your control. Accept it. Maybe there was a reason for it to happen and we aren’t aware of it. Maybe it is a blessing in disguise. Give others a reason of doubt instead of blaming and judging. All of us are struggling in some way or the other, looking for love and compassion. We never know the battle of someone else unless we are in their shoes. We don’t know how their past have been. Be kind and patient.
Let us not jump to conclusions. Let others behave the way they want. Were they rude? Were they hurtful? Did they insult you? Never mind. No one does it intentionally to harm you. Circumstances are different for everyone and hence we behave as per the moment. To be in peace, we need to let go and that isn’t easy for everyone.
Make your heart such that be content in everything you have or don’t have. If you have to lose something that you like, yet accept it and be content. Maybe it was not meant to be in your life!